Getting Prepared in New Jersey

Is only 3 weeks away! Someone could say is TOO early to pack!! Yet, i, dont think so. I have planned my entire attire a month ahead to make sure that the clothes i want with me , will be in my closet ready to be packed whenever i want to. I hate when i want sth that i know it is there and i just cant find it. I hate when someone messes with my piles, i wouldnt mind if someone told me "Hey i have done this there, just be aware of it..." I like order at least when i have planned sth. I wouldnt care less if my entire closet was a mess and clothes were forming piles.... yet, if i have planned for a vacation and i have an idea of what clothes i will use from the piles, i sort of try to have those close ready to be packed. Is wonderful to prepare of a vacation like this. I am really looking forward to this and i keep notes in my mind of what i absolutely want with me to make it perfect. Am not going though to be crazy about small things. As you mention too, love, things i use everyday i keep as they are for daily use, but things like sunscreen, bikinis, towels and hat i have already packed...sometimes i forget to take the small things because we are too sure i have them packed, when i havent in the first place. By deviding the things at two different places, daily used ones and things that can be packed then i know for sure if it is not at place A then it is at place B. AND only those two places i will check.If someone removes them i will ask where are they, find them and put them back xaxaaxxaxxa i hope you are ok with this....sorry love.. :* :* :* My closet is already divided with things that will be packed first and last. I have already washed, ironed the clothes i need with me and i am not going to use them until the day i take them out from suitcases. In fact as i was doing all this i found out that certain clothes i bought last year were missing. So i tried to find them. Finding them is a HUGE story. I ended up cleaning, re organising the drawers, the closets everything and i can assure you it took me LONGER than i thought. It took me a week!! I cant imagine myself DISCOVERING that i have to go through this process the NIGHT before our vacation starts. I would panick and then need to settle with things i wouldnt like and compromise....and compromise is not my thing...I love my Alan and i respect him and i will never change him because i like him EXACTLY as he is, and i will never compromise my feelings for him EVER. I cant imagine us NOT feeling for eachother, NEVER!!!! Am SO excited by this trip. Alan is so much more relaxed and enjoying this waiting period BUT am too excited already. We are going to have wonderful vacations and i want our memories to be perfect!!! I love you my alan deeply and this isnt going to change, PERIOD!!!!!